Bendygirl Returns to California
“I slept and I dreamed that life is all joy. I woke and I saw that life is all service. I served and I saw that service is joy.”
California Delight
Hello, lovelies. It’s been quite some time since we last met. Life has a strange ability to pull us into its chaos, spinning time into something that feels ungraspable and illlusive. One wonders, “Where did all the time go? “ But here we are again—and it’s a joy to be back with you. I am thrilled to share new adventures and updates for the BG brand.
Significant shifts are on the horizon for my Bendy World, including the expansion of my BG business. After three years of dreaming, planning, working, and patiently waiting, I am finally on the verge of a long-awaited move to my little slice of heaven in Northern California. Yes, Lake County, East Bay and San Francisco—I’m finally heading your way, and not a moment too soon! I’ve missed California for many reasons. The time has come to take my heart back to Cali. I’m counting down to the day my darling kitties and I get to hit the road for Home.
If you’ve ever built, renovated, or customized a home, you’ll understand my pain—equal parts excitement, challenge, and deep-breath patience. But in the end, the effort will always be worth it. When I’m finally slipping into my 100-year-old Japanese copper soaking tub and gazing out over the lake, the long road there will dissolve into the deliciousness of the moment. The very best things in life are always worth the wait.
I make my grand departure from Vegas at the end of April, and with that, a new chapter begins. I plan to start seeing clients in June (cross your fingers) at my home in Kelseyville, nestled among the beauty of Clear Lake. And yes—San Francisco (swoon!) is calling. I’ll be making my first trip there mid-June. I will work in the heart of SF for 7–10 days a month, most months. Berkeley, Santa Rosa, Napa, Fort Bragg, Mendocino, and other small towns in the region might also be on the menu. Lake and Humboldt County are new to me, and I look forward to exploring the area over the next few years. Glass Beach looks like a dreamy destination. Tour dates will be posted on my site in May, and you will receive a newsletter notification for travel dates and pre-bookings.
Updated Art of Nuru Site Coming this Summer!
If we’ve connected in Vegas, I’d love to see you before I go. I’ve recently lowered my rates for my final few weeks here to make that easier.
This move isn’t just a change of scenery—it’s a transformation for BG as well. My home has been intentionally designed as a vast workspace and a retreat/training facility. Opening the door to new offerings that reflect freedom, privacy, and a new level of sensuality-debauchery. My expanded menu will include:
Intimate spa & fitness services - Manscaping, anyone? Salt scrub, shower enema?
Unique anal fetish toys - For those who reside outside the box.
Intimate detox journey retreats for couples - Full-day, overnight, and weekend experiences.
Private group lifestyle & sexy journey parties - Bring a few friends =)
Mature woman fetish/fantasy experiences - Mature women know more about naughty things.
Tantra/Nuru - The same beautiful session expanded to include more mutual play and edging.
Nuru & Tantra professional training - Art of Connection for an intimate community.
The journey home has been a long one. Once I land, I want to savor it. Because of that, I’ll spend most of my time working out of my private sanctuary, offering extended, deeply immersive sessions at discounted rates for those visiting me in Kelseyville. I swear, it will be worth the drive.
Within the tranquility of my own space, I can finally craft experiences that flow with ease, intention, and deep sensuality. It’s an environment where we can truly relax, drop in, and explore without distraction.
When I travel, my offerings will be limited. I will only provide 90-minute and 2-hour Nuru sessions while on tour. All other services will be exclusively available at my home in Kelseyville. I can’t wait to welcome you into my custom designed space, where time slows, touch deepens, and presence becomes the most luxurious experience of all.
For those unfamiliar with the area, Kelseyville is:
- 90 minutes from Napa
- 2 hours from Santa Rosa
- About 2 hours and 45 minutes from San Francisco
- And if you’re lucky enough to have access to a private plane, a private airport is just 20 minutes from my home.
Nuru Training by Bendygirl
Perhaps the most exciting announcement of all is… beginning this summer/fall, I will launch my Tantra and Nuru massage training, business development, brand consulting, guest workshops, and BG mentorships through my new website: nurutraining.com.
You can read all the details in May, when the first blog is published. Please spread the love and share this new resource with your favorite pros in the industry. I envision cultivating a vibrant, supportive community where professionals can learn, share, grow, and connect. A space built to uplift and empower other badass babes who are ready to refine their skills, expand their success, and thrive in this unique industry.
I am absolutely thrilled for this next phase of my journey and all the experiences it will bring. As you can see, retirement is nowhere in sight! While I may have the soul of a hermit, continuing to see clients keeps me from vanishing into the mountains and becoming a full-fledged Taoist nun.
I love what I do. The deep, meaningful connections. My work keeps me grounded, inspired, and deeply connected—to myself, to others, and to the beautifully fleeting moments that make life rich and unforgettable. Creating a life I truly love to live, means staying present with everything that brings me joy, fulfillment, and genuine connection.
Moving into my new home allows me to sink even deeper into my Tantric path. It is my sacred space where I can fully embody and share the practices that have shaped my journey. This is more than just a move—it’s the beginning of something truly spectacular.
With Nuru training, I can share 16 years of experience, wisdom, and perspective to help others build thriving brands, viable businesses, and long-term financial success. Nuru Training was constructed out of my deep love for Sexwork. I hope to spend the next 20 years training thousands of future BGs. This is only the beginning!
My Love of the Journey!
I was introduced to MDMA, mushrooms, and LSD about three years ago, and to say the impact has been profound would be an understatement. The shock and awe of these experiences has reshaped not only my personal life but also the way I approach my work. I have witnessed extreme shifts in intimate perspective, heightened erotic ability, and even profound changes in neural pathways—both in myself and my clients.
I consider MDMA to be an invaluable tool in my work. It has the power to dissolve emotional barriers, soften awkwardness, and allow for deeper, more vulnerable connections. For couples, I firmly believe it has potential to be a transformative, intimate therapeutic aid. Used with intention—perhaps once a month—it can shift the chemistry of a relationship, reignite passion, and create a safe space for authentic emotional and sensual exploration.
To be clear, I am a micro-doser and ONLY a micro-doser. When used in a therapeutic context, MDMA is not about escapism—it’s about presence, connection, and turning inward. It has a way of stripping away pretense, encouraging intimate self-inquiry and a reevaluation of how we approach love, intimacy, and self-expression. When used with care and intention, it is poignant, provocative, and profoundly powerful.
Because of this, Journey Sessions will take center stage in my work. These guided experiences are decadent, deeply passionate, and intellectually thrilling—an exploration that every curious soul deserves to embark on.
I adore creating experiences that leave a lasting imprint. In the right hands, with proper guidance, these sessions become more than just an experience—they become an unforgettable gateway to heightened pleasure, expanded awareness, and profound connection. For those willing to explore, I am here as a genuine, empathic guide—ready to lead you into new realms of sensation, depth, and discovery.
In the privacy of my sanctuary, I offer the perfect atmosphere to awaken the senses, deepen intimacy, and guide you toward new heights of luxurious pleasure. Whether rolling, tripping, or flipping, I look forward to taking that journey with you.
A Little Business
For my clients (and future clients) in Lake County and the Bay Area!! I’d love your insight. What are your favorite ad platforms and the what’s safest ways to connect with companions? If you have any marketing recommendations, I’m all ears.
Some of you may have noticed that I’m no longer on Private Delights. My ads were hacked (or so they say), and as a result, they were taken down. Despite multiple attempts to reach out, my emails have gone unanswered. If you were curious, I hope this solves that mystery for you!
Help Me Build My Toy Box!
I’m putting together a fun little treasure chest and would love your input. Send me links to your favorite toys! They can be for you, me, or both of us to enjoy. Let’s make this a playful, indulgent, and oh-so-thrilling collection. Please feel free to bring a toy to our session, and we can give it a whirl.
A Few Exciting Updates:
New pictures coming soon! Expect some fresh selfies in May to showcase my new space. I also have a professional photoshoot planned for July/August.
A Heartfelt Thank You—To everyone who has seen me over the years, you made this possible. Because of your time, energy, and generosity, I was able to renovate a home and turn it into a dream I once only dared to dream. I can’t wait to share it with you.
But this journey isn’t just about me—there’s a beautiful mermaid out there, who has been swimming in the shadows of my business, and it’s time her story is told. My dear friend and assistant has been by my side for five years. A few years ago, she left the U.S. to explore Eastern Europe, where she fell in love—not just with the adventure, but with the pull of a life there. This year, she made that dream a reality. She is now in the final stages of purchasing her dream home abroad, and I couldn’t be more thrilled for her.
And guess what? This, too, happened because of all of you.
Your support, your presence, and your generosity have fueled not just one but two dreams—two women out here conjuring magic, turning visions into reality, and making shit happen!
(= From the bottom of my heart, thank you all for giving a Fuck! =)
Namaste’
BG
