For the Love of Couples

WRITTEN BY BENDY GIRL

READ TIME: 4 min. 49 sec.

Introduction

Without a doubt, my most enchanting moments are the ones where I have the pleasure of embracing the love of a couple. Witnessing love in action is an exquisite experience—organic, free-flowing, and deeply authentic. The tenderness, true connection and profound mutual adoration that flourishes in such shared intimate bonds is unparalleled. Being invited into such a loving bond is a gift beyond measure. I embrace every sensual, intimate moment.

Threesomes+ have always been a pervasive part of my personal intimate life, combining the magic of sensuality and connection. The swinger lifestyle has always called to me, opening my eyes to a world of limitless opportunities and shared pleasure. The "lifestyle" has revealed that shared intimacy inspires me. To learn more about the threesome experience checkout this article in Men’s Health Australia.

A Unicorn’s Journey!

I was introduced to lifestyle parties by an ex-partner, and soon discovered that I preferred attending them alone. Before long, I was being invited to attend the parties solo, embraced as an enchanting Unicorn. I guarantee you that Unicorns do exist!

It took me nearly three-quarters of my life to realize that monogamy would never be my path. Trust me, I have tried a few times. My fiercely independent spirit, dedication to self-discovery, and solitary personal growth led me to understand that my journey is one I must engage in, alone. To become the person I aspire to be, I embrace walking alone. I make a much better Taoist nun than a traditional life partner. But at heart, I will always be a hopeless romantic, and spending time with connected loving couples, reminds me, “There IS magic in love”!

The Tantric Journey of Couples and Threesomes 

The process of setting an appointment which involves a threesome is rarely spontaneous. Most couples have spent time contemplating, communicating, fantasizing, and sharing their vulnerabilities/desires before taking the plunge. This journey of exploration can ignite exciting conversations and deepen their connection. For couples who feel stuck, this might just be the exhilarating solution you’ve been seeking. The anticipation and shared intent can be incredibly bonding, opening doors to new realms of intimacy and deepening love. Read more about how working with a professional Tantrist can build a relationship in my recent blog Couples Intimate Journey.

Tantra can shift the perception of the role intimacy plays in loving relationships. Creating space to learn and openly communicate about intimate practices and loving moments is a gift that every couple should give themselves at least once in their steadfast, long-term relationships. If seeing a financial planner can shift wealth and consulting a nutritionist can enhance health, just imagine the long-term relationship benefits of connecting with an intimate teacher who can shift beliefs, by unlocking the true potential of “Making Love Better.”

Time with a Tantrist can unlock the essence of "sexy" in a woman. Intimate moments shared with another woman can give her the permission to embrace her deepest desires and revel in her sensuality. In a world where social media and society at large send mixed messages, many women find themselves questioning where the line of acceptable "sexy" is within their individual circles. This conundrum can lead to anxiety and awkwardness, stifling their ability to unleash the fierce, sexy goddess that resides within.

Intentional practices can help a woman turn her attention inward by fostering a profound love for every aspect of herself, and all the beautiful qualities she embodies. Through guided exploration and compassionate connection, a woman can shed societal expectations and rediscover her unique, and unapologetic sensuality. This journey of self-love and acceptance is not only empowering but also transformative. It allows a woman to fully embody her sexuality and radiate it confidently.

Serving as a guide for “Intimate Journeying” is an absolute pleasure for me. I believe couples should consider utilizing MDMA once a month as a means of deepening their intimate connection. MDMA can offer a powerful therapeutic enhancement of intimacy between couples. When microdosed, the potential to elevate loving moments is amplified by the sensations of touch, stimulating neurological responses and opening lines of communication. Connected moments can bring partners closer together, and heal wounds. I have witnessed this firsthand.

When a couple engages in this practice, they often experience a heightened sense of tenderness towards each other. Guards are let down, and agendas are set aside, allowing communication to flow with ease and grace. This open-hearted state creates space to resolve sticking points that might cause rifts, sarcasm, and resentment. The experience can transform how couples relate to one another. A shift in the connection creates a safe space where vulnerability is not only accepted but, celebrated.

The intentional use of MDMA as an intimate tool is more than just a fleeting experience; it can have lasting benefits in a relationship. Journeys can help couples build a stronger foundation of trust and understanding, allowing them to navigate the complexities of their relationship with greater ease. The bonds forged in these moments of heightened intimacy can lead to a more harmonious and fulfilling partnership.

For couples willing to embark on this journey, the rewards are immense. Sharing such a profound experience can create a sense of unity and solidarity that is deeply empowering. As a guide, I am honored to facilitate this process, helping couples to unlock new dimensions of their love and connection. 

Final Thought

The world of intimate exploration - whether through the enchantment of shared moments, the liberating practices of Tantra, or the transformative power of MDMA - offers couples profound opportunities to deepen their connection and reignite their passion. Journeys enhance intimacy and build a stronger foundation of trust and understanding. Embracing these experiences can lead to a more harmonious and fulfilling partnership. It is my greatest joy to spend time with you, and maybe even take a journey together.

Bendy Retreats!

I will return to California in early 2025. My lovely new home in Northern California is currently being renovated (yes, still), and will serve as my future retreat and training facility. I will be hosting Nuru clinics a few times a year for small, private groups of professionals looking to add Nuru to their offerings, and separately for sexy vanillas wanting to enhance their bedroom skills. Look out for Nurutraining.com, launching this fall. I have a passion for teaching and can't wait to train many Nuru Goddesses.

In addition, I will offer 2-day private Intimacy Detox retreats for couples. These retreats will include yoga, pilates, Nuru instruction (for her), massage table instruction (for him), journeying, discussions on Tantra, nature walks, and delicious food. Most importantly, they will provide a profound opportunity for deep connection. These retreats give couples a chance to detox their intimate relationships and reset their journey together. Keep an eye out for Intimacydetox.com coming this fall. I look forward to sharing love in my new home.