SexWork Suits Me
WRITTEN BY BENDY GIRL
READ TIME: 4 min. 47 sec.
Her heart as fierce as the crashing waves,
Her pride will not be taken to the grave.
Who's mane is as amber as the birds who soar.
She was born and taught to roar.
- Monica Lin
When that birthday time of the year comes around, I believe many of us take stock of our lives, accomplishments and personal levels of joy. As another year ticks away, I too take inventory of my life and ask myself “How much closer am I to my own hopes, dreams and personal excellence?” This year brought me to a glorious new city abound with a cultural and social diversity I have not been a part of in decades. Santa Barbara is far from a diverse locale, so the shift in social scene is quite thrilling. Los Angeles came with many unexpected surprises, I had no clue I would fall head over heels for this city. My move to Hermosa Beach happened so fast and furiously that it pulled the rug from right under me. I’m a just jump kind of gal though so I rolled with it like a pro. Today, I couldn’t be happier with the choices the universe threw at my feet. One thing I know for sure is that sexwork suits me. I am a firm believer that when you set out to manifest anything, you better damn-well be ready to show up when the powers that be answer your highest order. My move and life transition were swift, pure perfection and a glorious test of my ability to call in my highest wishes. Read about the benefits of believing in yourself and positive thinking in Very Well Minded.
July is always a reflective time for me, a take stock kind of month. My birthday month is when I conduct a true assessment of the year that just passed. It’s a time when I get real and accept no BS from myself. Year after year, the questions remain the same.
How hard did I work?
Did I reach high enough to achieve my goals, or did I sell myself short?
Did I have the guts to choose courage over comfort?
Did I get out of my own way, or was I my own personal self saboteur?
This year was a banner year for me and a personal pat on the back is defiantly in order. I reached higher than I typically do, I fought harder for my future, my health, my longevity and my happiness as I deepened the level of joy in my life. In 2021, I did the hard stuff, kicked my own ass and pushed over many walls that held me back. For me, the steps taken forward greatly out numbered any I might have taken backwards.
SexWork continues to allow me to live out my dreams, that the younger me never dared to imagine. As a deeply spiritual being I have always wanted my life to belong to me, completely untethered with the freedom to be unabashedly myself. For me SexWork is nothing short of personal perfected female empowerment where I am given the opportunity to crush any box that I might be expected to live in. I’ve always loved the freedom of routine that comes from living a single life that bucks conformity. Being a companion supports my lifestyle choice of spiritual solitude. I love living the life of a professional Tantrist, as it suits me in so many ways. As a Tantrist, creating a life that I look forward to living is the highest order I can deliver to myself.
If We Cannot Live in Joy, What Would be the Point?
I have always preferred to walk the peaceful path. As a result, I believe in the quiet gifts of everyday living. I no longer feel the need to make the grand gestures. I feel it is best to live my life in the small moments. It is here where I can take time to hallow the ordinary and to search for my god in the quiet places. I believe we have to be aged-well to procure the ability to fall into the mystery of life. It takes time to feel the aliveness of the world around us so we can be alert to the Holy Moments that fill the days of our lives. Age can deliver us a certainty of the immense beauty and joy of living, that transcends all the darkness that surrounds us. I believe life can be quite glorious when you choose to be awake to the small graces of living.
I Try Never to Forget Small Graces are Enough!
SexWork allows me to build a life that I love, where joy and happiness always transcend any struggle and strife. Each and every day we have a new opportunity to step up and listen to our heart. For if we do not listen to our heart, our soul will never forgive us. For me the love of life is found in the process of living. I take time to dance naked, sing at the top of my lungs, meditate in nature, garden, read, dream, do yoga, chant and float in the sea. SexWork gives me the ability to consistently cultivate daily routines, rituals and a uniquely structured self-care lifestyle that creates a solid stability that suits me so well. For me SexWork is a lifestyle choice that allows me to explore the deep crevasses of my heart. It is from this place that allows me to come to you as a whole complete being with the ability to share the very best of me. The greatest thanks I owe this year is to SexWork and all the joy it delivers me through the life it allows me to live. The greatest lesson SexWork offers me is that a life lived with love, IS enough!
I thank you all for visiting me this year. Our time together is meaningful and an integral part of my own personal journey of living a life of LOVE. SexWork suits me as a lifestyle, as a woman and sensual erotic being. I look forward to another year of loving and living the life of a Tantrist.
Forever, Namaste’
BG
P.S.
Most of you know that I am an avid conservationist. The SW industry utilizes an excessive amount of water. One appointment requires 4 showers (2 for you and 2 for me), plus the washing of sheets and towels. As the drought deepens here in CA, please always consider this and shower at home for a deep cleaning right before you leave and and do a quick rinse off here before and after our time together. I realize if you’re coming from work this may not always be possible. Regardless, please keep the showers efficient and quick with myself and anyone else you spend time with. I appreciate you being mindful of the impact our time together has on the local environment, this is VERY attractive to me.
