Loving Bendy
WRITTEN BY BENDY GIRL
READ TIME: 3 min. 55 sec.
Dreams unwind and Love is a state of mind
-Stevie Nicks
When a woman makes the choice to enter SexWork, she chooses a unique way of life, operating in the cultural fringes and living in the shadows. Regardless of how she got here, in the end it is always a conscious decision that takes time and strength to grow into. The offering of intimate services can create a life of personal freedom, deep internal wisdom and force spiritual development. When we engage together in SexWork it comes with a universal contract of respect of each of our personal lives, mutual trust, and a willingness to be open and honest to invite sacred alchemy into our loving Bendy time together. This magic cannot be found anywhere else. Tantra’s ability to lift the veil and create space for organic connection is rare and uniquely associated with mindful intimate moments.
Touch as Essential Nutrition
Touching moments feed my soul and color my life. Read more about the benefits of human touch in this article from Medical News Today. My tantric work offers me a deep empathic medicine that is nothing short of regular personal transformation. Regularly touching another through my therapies fine-tunes me to the needs and desires of those who wish to share space with me. Our time together is an emotional energizer that attunes me as it dissolve the layers between us.
Communication is where it all starts. It is my job to offer a safe space to connect, establish trust and a solid foundation where you know you have permission to feel what you feel. This is where and when you can strip down to reveal your real self. Communication moves us beyond words: skin, eyes and silence speak louder than many words. As we touch, move and communicate the experience becomes an exploration that delivers me an understanding of how to dissolve the layers of imbalances, internal/emotional wounds and self-sabotaging practices. Our time together helps me see and feel disempowering patterns that block emotional well being, hamper personal clarity and suppress the energetic field. My highest goal is to offer you a space to be heard, held , seen and understood. Together we can clear old air and lay the ground work for mutual mindful exploration. This is the essential foundation to expose and enhance the intimate moments we are about to share. Without setting this intention, the experience will not be as profound and decadent as it could be.
Communications Allows Us to Dissolve Nervousness, Fear and Uncertainty
Just as a fine meal is made far better by the environment in which it is consumed, intimacy can share this same knowing. Meeting gives us an opportunity to develop a rapport, establish a connection and unearth a mutual potential. People do not come together by accident, the universe just doesn’t work that way. I truly believe everyone I come in contact with in all areas of life, is meant to be. Sometimes the lessons are shallow and other times they are profound and mind altering, but the lessons are always there. Touching moments can dissolve the ego by unearthing a spiritual connection where flow becomes the grace that deepens our outcome. Here is where profound personal breakthroughs are experienced. Being in a space where you can honor your empathic wisdom, gives you the skills to truly feel when something is not “right.” Time becomes the altar for the ceremony of feminine nurturing and masculine safety, offering us both a potent experience of empathic proportions. Sacred connecting and the weaving of deep wisdom is the intention of the journey. In that moment we become the power objects that hold the space for profound self-seeing. Holding space, weaving time and truly seeing each other is what makes the moment vibrate with energy where spiritually expands to blow open your heart. This element is what makes it emotional clearing and deeply sacred. Think of it no differently than us making a decadent meal complete the finest ingredients we picked out together. The outcome will always be perpetuated by the mutual intention regardless of the action.
Offering intimate guidance and erotic support is an honor and joy that I hold close to my heart. My ability to “taste” energy grows as I gracefully move through time. Each beautiful soul that enters my space grants me an active opportunity to feel more and deepen my wisdom so I can become just a little better with each delicious morsel. When we gaze, touch, talk, groove and vibe we gather wisdom and information from one another. Think of if much like our time together is a chance to expose ourselves to the the finest micro-nutrients available. These nutrients truly feed and nourish health and wellbeing as they nurture our souls. How we spend our time together matters just as much as the foods we chose to put on our plates and in our mouths. Bodies, souls and minds all need to be fed with the finest ingredients, in the best environments, prepared by the happiest beings. I hope to offer you a most decadent experience with the capacity to change your view of intimacy, touching moments and a real reason to refine connection.
In My World Valentine’s Day is Every Day
I believe loving moments should be celebrated every day with every touch, at every connectable opportunity. As time passes my love for my erotic intimate work grows and my personal experiences deepens due to your presence in my life. Thank you for feeding my soul and deepening my ability and capacity to be a loving being.
I honor your presence and I send you LOVE from the infinite overflowing heart of a Bendygirl!
Happy Valentines to all the Loves in my life!
XO,
BendyGirl
Loveologist
