The Lover
WRITTEN BY BENDY GIRL
READ TIME: 2 min. 39 sec.
“I wish I could show you, When you are lonely or in darkness,
The Astonishing Light Of your own Being!”
Intimacy presents an opportunity to overcome pressures and transform our lives in a meaningful way. Tantra by no means can solve all our problems. However it does makes us ripe for the potential to live on a much higher level than we ever imagined possible. Spiritual development comes in many forms and everyone seeks the road that directs them to their authentic nature, to experience the “unsurpassed” and become the lover. So many seek the future attainment of full awakening. After all, it must be somewhere, RIGHT?!?
Today we turn to ancient traditions that were once cultural spiritual practices. These “once upon a time” powerful spiritual tools are now depleted of their most treasured embedded transformative qualities. In yoga classes everywhere, being stretchy and getting that yoga “butt” is a higher focus than the original “means” of the practice. Yoga was always intended to lead to a happy life. Otherwise - what is the point? So many missed a beautiful opportunity to move into the body and develop the Tantra mindset. We just had to take yoga home, and throw it all over the place. Yoga was never meant to stay on the mat. I dare you to rethink your yoga practice and what role it plays in a an overall happy healthy life? Now imagine getting intimate with some of that knowledge and taking it to bed.
Tantra is a concept that is brilliant, the message is clear and extremely relevant. We live largely unaware of a tremendous force contained within each of us. Tantric wisdom emphasis direct experience through a path of joy and affirmation. Revealing that intimacy clears the mind of faults/limitations and develops in its place, love and compassion. Just as good diet and active lifestyle leads to a healthy state. Abounding, consistent and meaningful love/touch/compassion/empathy leads to a joyous life. Intimate awareness and sensual mindfulness offer a taste of a higher purpose and a sustainable happiness through the experience of pleasure. Love and compassion are the necessary ingredients required to nurture a happy life. Just like health, happiness does not happen by accident. Tantra transforms the energy of desires into powerful tools that shift the human experience and the nature of consciousness, of our vast ability to experience un-binding joy.
Once you know you wish to live a life of love: how do you begin? If it was fitness, you would seek a trainer. Your diet, ”who’s your nutritionists?” You got ghosts >> who you gonna call?! 😉 Your love life is no different. When it is time to get your game on…this is where the Tantrist steps in.
A Tantrist can help you move through the essential stages that help you evolve, develop and expand your knowledge, empathic skills, deepen your wisdom and ability to connect with another in a meaningful way. Sensual, intimate, erotic and sexual touch can be stressful, whether self-imposed or not. A “touching” practice can help one emerge from a cycle of perpetual dissatisfaction and un-fulfillment. With practice and training we come to learn our “wholeness” was always there. Awakening naturally dissolves inner conflicts, improves self-value and dispels personal judgement.
The Lover can discover the power of desire, bliss, pleasure and ecstasy, as they overcome the need for empty fleeting pleasures that do not bring true satisfaction. As we let go of things that do not bring us real pleasure, we find the bounty of true desire and all its intimate delicacies were always inviting us to sit and enjoy.
Allow me to guide you to the place where everlasting bliss, joy, acceptance and Sensual Living begin.
Welcome my lover, May I be your guide!?!
XO,
BendyGirl
Loveologist
